i was brought up to be independent, even though i am the only child. staying alone at home was never a big deal for me. since i was 6, i was left alone at home after pre-school, waited for my parents back from work. maybe because we was staying in a quarters in a rural area, so nothing to be worried that time. everyone knew each other back there. i could even running to my dad's workplace a second considering it was so near. during primary school, at the age of 10 and 11 to be exact, i was trusted to hop on bus and taxi by myself to go home from school. cool huh? thinking back all those..power gila aku. dah la size badan kecik secoet. hihi..
being the only child, x semestinya kena pampered all the time macam org selalu kata. i heard that a lot, like seriously a lot. n i returned it with smile. they just dunno. i was forced to be independent, to be on my own feet. 9 years studying and working in KL, 2 years in Johor really taught me a lot.
so, i am from Kedah, he is from Negeri Sembilan. I am working in Kulai, Johor, while he is in Cyberjaya, Selangor. Jodoh, we met up and got married. considering my background history, i thought i'm gonna be fine. walaopon ramai cakap, dah kahwin lain. lain like how? lagipun kami tak penah tinggal sekali, terus LDM after kawen, x de efek sangat kot kan. yakin je ~
jeng jeng jeng! trust me, LDM is super sux. if anyone asking me for my opinion, i would definitely saying leave your work and stay together, without hesitate. if that is one of the choice la kan. but of course byk kena consider kan..but work ur best to stay together. Bak kata Ustaz Hasrizal 'Saiful Islam' "Perkahwinan jarak jauh (PJJ) adalah lumrah pasangan yang baru berkahwin. Tetapi hendaklah ada tempoh masa diikuti usaha untuk hidup bersama. Selepas rindu berjaya diatasi, ‘keselesaan’ saling berjauhan mula menjadi racun yang membinasakan! ". source here.
it was tough. tougher than i thought. plus of the pregnancy sickness, make it worse. huhu. tips to survive? hmm.. i'm still surviving it myself. but stay positive is the best key i guess.
but there's also kinda good part of it, i was enjoying my malas time. i can even eat on my bed. hahahahahaaha..ok buruk perangai. jgn ikut.
Allah tak akan menduga hambaNya melainkan mengikut kemampuan. ye dak? so, i consider myself as one of the tough one. hoyeah.
and alhamdulillah~ rezeki baby mungkin, my application of being transfer has been approved. starting next year, me and baby will be staying together with encik chenta. alhamdulillah alhamdulillah alhamdulillah~